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one should not be able to tell your sexual orientation from looking at you.
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.........
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So when I wear my "Black Zoroastrian Queers of America" t-shirt, I should be covering up the "queers" part with tape, eh?
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not clothing-wise, just appearance-wise. i am just trying to understand more about stereotypes. please, indulge me.
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kind of drifting in and out of sexuality - in the way that I have mostly been with men yet I am never happy...the things that have happened in my early/ mid-teens to do with men have made me so angry towards the male species. I have spent the last 10 years being angry. I have used my looks and sexuality to play a never-ending game of payback. I ensnare them with what I know most men ultimately want (yes not all) and boy I give it to them, but once I have them hooked I take a cruel pleasure in dropping them like a piece of crap. Yet it has given me no happiness or fulfillment. I am un-happy, I am not a trribly centred person. I crave love yet I have a mountain of inpenatrable barriers that nobody can knock down. I like girls also though have never had a relationship with one (though have had a few romantic encounters with)....
I want to be happy yet I cant let anyone in. It is a sad existence that I do not want to continue...yet changing is so hard.
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not such a social standard
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nah, you can't assume unless someone gives a cue. although, if people have known the supposed gay person for awhile without having the courage to ask directly or to make a conclusion some other way, they might start assuming just to get the matter out of the way. i usually keep the could-be notion in my head for as long as i can, which can actually be a bad thing, depending on how obvious the person perceives themselves to be.
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Ouroboros
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Dearest Gay Man Whom I have a Crush On,
This is hands-down the longest crush I have ever had. You took me to my first full moon gathering- T and I met at your mansion and you drove us there, music loud and piercing. Page 101 of the book was where you kept your hits of acid, which you kindly shared, and you and I sat in chairs by your car laughing at everyone who walked by. After the party we drove back to your house, and I stole a paper-clip shaped like "@" to commemorate the party. And since then I've seen you many times. I always feel shy and drawn to you- I want to speak to you but don't want to intrude, and I want to dance with you, because we dance the same energy. In June I approached you and asked if you remembered me, and you did, vaguely. I called you the cherry-popper and you and your male companions laughed, as you sat in the chairs by your car. Last night I saw you again, too shy to speak, but you caught my glancing away from you and made contact, and we talked about the DJs. T once said that you said as far as girls go, you think i'm hot, which is hot, but that was 4 years ago. Anyway, you are fabulous and I will continue fantasizing about you and me every time I see you.
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lol hope that works out for you
I hate the idea of sexual orientation, that everyone falls neatly into categories and that all gays are the same, as are all straights. Sexuality is individual, and should remain so.
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sameolme
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Luckily, I have a pointing tool which
keeps me sexually oriented.
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