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As a child of an early divorce, it always baffles me when youth are shocked or even traumatized by their parents' divorces or separations. I can't understand why they would care so much to have an enormous emotional reaction. What difference does it make if a marriage is split up? How is it significant?
That's the beauty of desensitization.
I suppose my situation was unique: the hero and villain were rather conveniently clear-cut.
And at the age of seven, I was preoccupied with other things.
Besides, nobody got hurt who didn't have it coming.
I really can't imagine what it would be like to have both parents present, let alone loving each other, let alone me loving them, and them at war.
I really can't.
So I can't sympathise nor empathise really, but I can say that I hope it fares better for you.
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