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magdalena You seem to know what is wrong with me better than I do myself. So what is my problem jackass? Who are you people to sit there and tell me why I act the way I do, what happens to me and what doesn't?? Huh? You don't know what goes on when you aren't around me. I don't go off by myself to get attention, and I don't blow everything that happens to me to get the attention. I am just myself, I have my own issues that I don't talk about. Sure I talk about the person I love and am very hurt and confused by the whole thing, but who are you to tell me what he thinks or what is going on when you don't know, or understand?! You've never had this happen to you before, you wouldn't know what it's like.
He's not my entire world, or is he? I love him, he's my best friend...he says he wants his space, that he doesn't want to be around me becuase he wants to see what else is out there........
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User24 magdalena: please don't take this the wrong way, I haven't been following your blathes, so I don't know the whole picture, but, based purely on the above:

people generally try to help, it is us who percieve it wrongly, I quite often have a go at my girl because she suggests I do cetain things, I know she's only trying to help, but it's annoying, I understand that, so, my advice to you is to try to be more understanding about how people act towards you, also, everyone is entitled to their opinion, and if you put your life on display, you can only expect 3 things, to be ignored by some, to do encouraged by some, and to be criticised by others. It is up to you to either take offence, explain more so that the criticiser understands, or to ignore them.

don't know if that helps you any, but hopefully it has.
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