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you_are_what_you_define_yourself_as
* And no one can tell you otherwise.

Of course we define ourselves by what we think others see in us (Cooley's theory of Looking_Glass_Self.)

If we can truely convince our deepest consciousness that others see us as what we want to be seen as, however, we can be whatever we want to be.
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no reason i actively try to resist giving in to some of the negative and deabilitating traits of my zodiac sign
it seems to work
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