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if a person doesn't love you, or you don't love them, what are they really worth to you? what effort, and what time? mainly the people we do not love, we treat on a per exchange basis, a one time contract. basically they usually are means to an end. it is not hard to understand the atrocities in the world when you look at it like this. other people are as often obstacles as they are comrades. and most people only love one or two people. the generous can love up to ten or twelve. i will not talk of saints. the world's problems are not their problems, and when they do accidentally solve the world's problems, it is because they have solved their own far more difficult problems first. but really, before you question atrocities, think about how many people you actually love.
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i'd burn out my last iota of energy for someone i loved, but i'd never get it back. so are they worth love?
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poetrylawetryatyahoodotcom
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Why beg the question, daxle?
That just seems so senseless, so self- defeating, so unreasonable.
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should love be given (or shown) because you'll receive it back? is that the right reason to show your love? I think love should be shown regardless of whether you'll get it back or not. As to worthiness... well that's a tricky one. If someone isn't worth loving (however you decide that) then maybe you shouldn't show them your love, for fear they won't change. Alternatively, to not express your love is to deny your true will. You cannot choose to give or not give love without hurting someone, either yourself or your lover. But I don't think you can judge someone's worthiness for love. I think love should be unconditional. I may be wrong, and I certainly don't always practice what I preach, but I preach what I believe at this moment.
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once again
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people are worth love... worth time... people matter... I know it's true, but I'm not 100% sure why.
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it's a constant mental struggle of mine. my strongest intelligence is in finding patterns. however, sometimes i force it by filling in gaps with my insecurities, in order to feel falsely secure. sometimes when i take a leap i'm right. sometimes not. sometimes i can never quite tell because it's really just a matter of perception.
i think i put myself in situations where i am not going to be receiving the love i want. the hardest thing is to step outside negative cyclic paths. the most worthwhile things are usually the hardest.
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minnesota_chris
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yes yes and yes
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