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what_i_really_learned
stork daddy i suppose i still believe largely in the same things. giving provisional assent to the reality of others. having compassion for them. learning. seeking from yourself what you may. i suppose the only difference is that i now adopt more caution. you really have to look at what you're doing and be sure what you think you're doing is what you're really doing. it doesn't matter if you want to help someone else if you've picked a poor tool to do so, or if you're deluded as to your actual motives. if you look closely and determine you really want something hurtful towards another...admit that to yourself before moving forward. people hate being punched in the back of the head more than being punched in the face. 050721