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Death of a Rose
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My father succumbed to the injuries of the car crash one day before his 63 birthday, April 25th, 2012.
We were becoming closer as father and son.
We had many rides planned and now those rides will be with me to fulfill and remember him as I ride. But not now or for the forseeable future as the hurt is still behind my heart.
He will always be close in here, this heart, this mind.
I miss him to the point of the future, and I will always have him close to myself and mine.
I Love You Dad.
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unhinged
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that's horrible; I'm sorry
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srealisma
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my Condolences Doar.... : (
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daf
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I'm there with you, bro. Give me a call. It's under "Brownie On A Stick"
Love you Doar.
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Ouroboros
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love
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minnesota_chris
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I'm really sorry.
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thy
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im so sorry
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Doar
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He carried weight with his life. He did everything from carpentry, plumbing, welding, vehicle repair, Luthier, being a great Man. He made steadfact friends easily and truly.
He made songs with his life and it was too short. He made me proud to be his son and friend. I love him very much and can't understand why the hell he was taken away from us. Our family is lost...
Oh man....you dunb shit of an old guy...you weren't supposed to leave us here......Mom is wanting to be with you and it hurts us.
I see your face in all the pictures and memories and I feel empty knowing you aren't here.
oh shit
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Lia
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He is very light now, Doar.
no more weights...
how free that must feel.
And he is here.
always. He hears you.
(least what i believe...
hope i haven't intruded here)
{{{*}}} to you.
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superleni
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Sorry, Doar.
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Death of a rose
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thank you all. i just don't understand, i really don't. He was a very good man and i wish he was still here.
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de lingo
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mehehe mohon yohanya.
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oren
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Feeling much sadness for you.
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Death of a Rose
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fuck_I'm_a_self
and sell_fless
And passing selling,
all the feelings,
that might have happened,
or are happening.
it's been more than a year
it's been more than a year missing him,
but now, I still miss him dearly, wishing I could talk with him, ride with him, stop at stupid little byways, upon a trip; and just talk, honestly with my Dad. I really hope I can face him when I have breathed my last.
That's scarey.
but tonight
is melodic
and wanting to talk.
get ready!
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rhin
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this is rather belated, but i am sorry as well. words fail me.
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Death of a Rose
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ah perfunctory...
is that even a word?
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daf
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I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your pops, DOAR. Perhaps its the bittersweet of memories that makes waking up in a new life with no recollection such a gift from heaven.
Be well, my friend.
see also: friends_forever
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rhin
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if your comment was in reference to my statement, then i apologize. i was extremely reflective regarding what you wrote and i think most of the effort in my statement remained in my head. after reading the entire page, it was a glaring reminder that my parents are aging as well and the thought of one day losing one or both of them is unbearable. i cannot imagine until i am there, but i felt for you. truly. years ago i lost my husband and no amount of words from anyone made me feel better. in fact i felt that the more people spoke i felt their need to do so was in a 'perfunctory' manner, as if they could heal me with words or give me advice that i would actually follow. sometimes it's better to just say 'i got your back', or 'i am sorry' - just be there physically, leaving the words alone. this is how it works for me anyway. i forget that it works differently for others. again, i am sorry.
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Death of a Rose
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rhin.
don't ever be sorry for reading thoughts or rememberances.
I really can't say
what i feel
or the reaction
to everything.
but again,
don't do that to yourself,
it's not a happy place.
Much Love Rhin, Very Much Love.
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Doar
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and no I was just
leaving
the doar
open
sitting at a table
getting the wrinkles out
of the table clothe
putting the
shakers of salf and pepper
in the middle
arranging plates, forks, spoons
and knives
so they are ready to be used
if needed
napkins
are overlooked
but still make a centrepiece
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Candles
surely you cannot have a meal
for anyone
without candles.
or the matches.
to light
and eat
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