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swadharma
unhinged 'dharma means righteous action. swadharma means right_action s that are unique to each individual, according to their own innate nature, their swabhav. swadharma is that sweet spot where our work and love come together in a completely satisfying way, setting us free even as it fulfills us. no two people can have the same swadharma; you can't live someone else's swadharma for them. your swabhav (innate nature) shapes your swadharma. the texture and nature of your swabhav determines the direction from which you will flow. you must be congruent internally according to your swabhav, instead of futilely struggling to be a square peg in a round hole. and you should be congruent externally toward your swadharma.'

- nilima bhat and raj sisodia
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