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androgynous just found out that nobody's perfect (a day or week or month ago) - that all my friends have random annoying character flaws or mannerisms or something which sometimes annoy me... and that i'm just as bad and most likely worse... and wondering how people deal with it, I suppose.

eh, i suppose it doesn't really matter, or something. Good people
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pobodys nerfect *looks around to everybody* I guess maybe i should answer this because of the name thing? =) Alrighty then...

In my ripe old age of 31,i've learned that imperfections--especially physical ones--seem to become less and less important as one ages. At least for anyone who isn't a celebrity. ;)

I've also learned that people do have the ability to change if they really want it,and that half the things i spent countless hours of anxiety and worry on during my teenage years isn't even important to me now. My friends from then aren't even my friends anymore,and for the most part i don't even miss them. I feel like i'm a completely different person.

I used to feel like the "odd duck" in a group,but now i've met so many different people i get along with that i've actually learned to embrace all those things about me i used to consider "weird". I WELCOME my imperfections,because even with them, i'm being true to myself about who i am. Perfection is a myth. An unattainable thing that nobody will ever achieve,because in the end,it all comes down to a matter of perception.

Embrace all your quirks/"flaws",because in the end it's you who's going to be your own lifelong companion.

--(and yes,that really is my username here) =o)
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buttellingthemhowperfectyouthinktheyare oughta be more socially acceptable. 050414
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flexible hurts. but you'll always keep looking for the one person who is perfect. always. because HOPE is the greatest treasure of all.

when you meet them, you hunt for the flaws. you don't find them, which is confusing to say the least.

when you get to know them you realise that they are flawed, even if their flaw is merely wanting to know you better.

(this made a lot more sense in my head)
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Piso Mojado wonderful, pobody, thank you for sharing 050415
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pobodys nerfect *blush* Thank you,Piso. =) 050416
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blah-ze this one hurts

when it hits home, and everything falls away, you see that your eyes were clouded, your mind was in the wrong place, and they used you
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Nothing is Perfect... 050418
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... __since__the__time__without__beginning... 050418
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? M_evolution / revolution of the_six_knots 050418
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123 Individual_karma & Collective_karma around_and_across the Human_spaces... 050418
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anne-girl oh, oh
makes things better
cause i'm not perfect
and if i know they're not too... then, then... it means everyone's real, and we're all brothers/sisters, to get all monk-like
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hey you I swept the fingernail clippings off the shelf by our bed because I realized it was gross. sorry about that. 050628
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three words anorexic_girl where_were_you
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