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| dlexa |
When you don't like yourself very much, it feels like you don't deserve to have a healthy loving relationship. That's why the gurus go on and on about that whole self love thing. But you can't just decide to love yourself cause it's the thing to do. And it's hard to do it alone. So I fear that the best case scenario is that you use your dysfunctional relationships as stepping stones towards a better you. Pick someone who matches where you're at and let them go/drop them like a hot rock, when they're no longer serving you. When you're really low, being alone sounds scarier than being with an asshole. In which case, pray the asshole abandons you. |
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