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amy nada
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the perfect representation for my stuck living situation with my family. they won't admit they have hippie mindsets and i staunchly maintain that it is mostly a fault of origins and a philosophy of trashing other's worldly achievements. so, i seem to say, you don't support a normal social life? then we don't get the benefits of my having one, and someone, you know, has to provide some structure somewhere, so they are the ones that bear the burden. since both my (divorced) parents live in isolation from having a normal social life as well, they benefit from my company. and implicit in this is that i will be there to take care of them as they get older. it's a "stuck" scenario, not totally horrible, because we humans truly should take care of each other, but it is limiting nonetheless and only seems to be getting moreso. it *is* better than undergoing implosions in the overarching culture, and i never liked beer, etc. anyway, so i'm glad not to be sitting through a million parties that i'm not getting anything out of...
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nandita
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woo... good one. may I quote you on the million parties bit? ;)
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amy nada
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why, yes... unless you're kind of making fun of me for having no life, and then, of course, the quotage won't be tolerated. Copyright 2010.
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wow what you wrote came true for me... limited life, taking care of aging isolated parents
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