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I'm strongly against the whole "gay rights" thing.
I'm not against some girls or guys going off to do Lord knows what, Lord knows how, with their Lord knows what. That doesn't matter to me a bit. Be gay, be straight, reproduce asexually for all I care. But here are a couple of things that DO bug me:
Why can't a gay person just stand up and say "Fuck Off! My sex life is none of your business!" Why must the Lesbian Gay Bi Transsexual Hermaphroditic community:
A) announce their lifestyle choices? (Hey I like to gargle with freshly aborted fetuses, you don't see me advertising the fact or forming a parade to announce how proud I am to be a Fetus Guzzler. (Hey! They were already dead!) Oral and Anal sex imagery is in that same zone for some of us.) and
B) Why must the LGBT community look for some "gay gene" to force society to accept you under the "genetic freak" clause of society's compassion guide. Be accepted because you're you, not because "you can't help it." What a cop out. Don't pretend to stand up while planted firmly on your ass please.
Finally, why must every single member of the Lesbian Gay Bi Transsexual community completely overlook parental gender roles and their effect on a child's later sexual preferences.
For years its seemed obvious to me that boys who grow up with a single mom and no male role model are much more likely to identify themselves as being gay later on in life.
This holds true again and again and again. Whenever gender identity is confusing in a household, the child is much more likely to identify themselves as gay or bisexual later on. Strong domineering mom? Effeminate, passive dad? (A passive, single mom is the same as an Effeminate, passive Dad.) Look for a higher likelihood that the child will experiment with homosexuality or at the very least, experience gender confusion.
Anyhow, get your shit together you Rainbow Coalition mother fuckers. Real Americans don't beg for anything. And we certainly don't apologize or make excuses for being what we are.
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I'd like statistics on this whole gender identity issue you're saying is 'obvious.' Put some numbers to it.
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Something tells me you wouldn't even be considering it if it hadn't hit close to home. Next.
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You mean like I'm afraid my daughter will be extra girlie because she only sees her dad once a week?
I do numbers for a living, so I like numbers to accompany any and all assertions pertaining to generalized statements.
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If you'd like to put forth the funding, I'll do the research..since you need the numbers. Otherwise... Start watching. You now have a premise..and a need..for numbers. I've already seen all I need to have formed a hypothesis. My hypothesis stands: Confusing/absent parent-child love relationships and gender role models during childhood can lead to gender confusion, and does. Disprove it. You're the consensual reality nut.
The reason no one will look into it, is because straight researchers could give a fuck, and gay researchers have the "genetic link" as their holy grail.
God forbid it should be another result of the way modern, dysfunctional family life and the "culture" which fostered it is reshaping society..again. Huh?
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I would like to clarify one thing:
I am not trying to say that there is anything wrong with being exactly who you are and feel you are in the moment.
Nurture or nature, it doesn't matter. Who you are now is a result of both or either. You're feeling all gay now. Maybe you'll be something else later. Maybe not. Maybe you'll be feeling gay for life. Maybe its a comfortable place for you to be. I wish you all of the best. I hope you find all of the love and happiness you seek. P.S. You're not a sexual proclivity..you're a person.
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