|
| |
i_got_the_my_boyfriend's_an_asshole_blues
|
|
|
CelticMistress
|
my boyfriend's an asshole. i love him, but he's a dick. and i have no clue what to do about it.
|
020101
|
| |
... |
|
|
kittenondrugs
|
yeah, i sympathize. they all turn into assholes, but we never really do anything about it. gotta love those assholes.
|
020101
|
| |
... |
|
|
advice
|
i have a suggestion:
break up with him,
but still see him frequently.
trust me, it'll be different.
you'll be chock full of wonder.
|
020101
|
| |
... |
|
|
not an asshole
|
I have no sympathy for women who stick with idiotic men.
It's just plain stupid.
Work it out or leave. That simple.
|
020101
|
| |
... |
|
|
Tank
|
mine's an arsehole too...
|
020102
|
| |
... |
|
|
kerry
|
ditch him
why do you put up with shit like that?
|
020102
|
| |
... |
|
|
cube
|
I hear they're working on an antidote - something about fighting the poisonous effects of detestable pheromones.
Currently, monkey assholes are being tested...
³
|
020102
|
| |
... |
|
|
lonely
|
I've got the "I've never had a boyfriend" blues.
|
020102
|
| |
... |
|
|
unhinged
|
.
|
171217
|
| |
... |
|
|
Twitch
|
What exactly makes him an asshole?
|
171218
|
| |
... |
|
|
unhinged
|
i don't have a boyfriend and don't really want one
i do have an ex keeps calling me that is an asshole though
|
171218
|
| |
... |
|
|
Twitch
|
I find that their are different types of "asshole" behaviours that are really just me going after my purpose. These aren't always seemingly deep or noble goes, thought they certainly can be. If I choose love over my purpose, I have a deep disdain/disgust for myself that goes underneath everything I do. Of course I still consider love to be one of the most beautiful things about being a human
|
171219
|
| |
... |
|
|
Twitch
|
Checking back on this one - still want to see what made him an asshole. Call me curious
|
171228
|
| |
... |
|
|
unhinged
|
he's an asshole because he uses me like a free therapist and he has substance abuse problems which make him prone to lash out in the nastiest ways possible. he used to shred my feelings
battered_woman_syndrome
now i don't answer
i don't respond when he calls seven times in thirty minutes
i don't call back when he leaves hysterical messages
this vessel is closed for
osychic_cleaning
no_no
i will not agonize over his bad choices
the same bad choices
after_all_these_ years
|
171228
|
| |
... |
|
|
Twitch
|
My unsolicited response is that you were probably doing the right thing. The only way to really help someone like that, is to get them to a rehabilitation place, or somewhere where they cannot use drugs. Outside of that, it’s probably best to do what you’re doing. People aren’t really themselves when they abuse drugs or alcohol, their primary focus is to procure the substance of their choice , Everything else is secondary.
|
171229
|
| |
... |
|
|
unhinged
|
if anyone taught me
that addicts need to choose for themselves
it was him
i moved to the west coast
to remove myself
ive been telling him for years
make_better_choices
he is currently locked_up
on his third strike
i have done more than necessary
and the result is still the same
no more struggle
no more pain
|
171229
|
