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If it was a straw that broke my back, then my back was broken and there's no forgetting. I don't think I would do anybody any favors by forgiving. If I do something wrong, I want to be held responsible, although I like it better when it is done compassionately. So I treat others the same way and kindness doesn't then forgive!
But I do have a multiple lives/bazillion year timespan in mind so maybe I'm just putting it off until later. I'm here to break my contracts and experimentally avoid making new ones ( for the time being--- FRREEEE LOOOVE! ) so it also does behoove me not to forgive and if people come up to me with a you-owe-me when I was more than willing to forgive the debt ( not any actions ) then that's a contract of sorts and that's not what my intention is. But! When I get poor and lacking and needy I can get hypocritical and confused and confusing about the issue.
Probably TMI. Just wanted to disagree, I guess. I'll forgive people, I guess, when we're all stuck in heaven together. I don't see why I should sell myself out when some simply just refuse to get their shit together. I know the feeling, and I totally don't forgive myself for bad behavior either.
HSG, don't worry, you probably just don't have my levels of capricorn and Saturn so it's a good thing we don't harmonize on the whole forgiveness thing!!!!! you'd hate me. Although the good news is that we do seem to jupiter-ize really quite well. So yeah..... whatever.
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