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Hooked up with some hot chick who I've flirted with since day 1.
Sex was...well, not what it could have been.
I didn't cum...like we were at it and I just didn't...maybe I was too tired...idk.
Or maybe it was my ADD...like I couldn't just focus on her...I was focused on different aspects of the situation.
And yea...after a half hour or so moaning, she cried.
Turns out I was only the second guy she's had sex with and it "didn't feel right."
I certainly would not have done anything if she gave me this impression earlier.
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which is y she ddnt say anything earlier.
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The last time we did it, I was sore, and it didn't work. It hurt, very sharply. I thought I was going to tear. He couldn't get in. Probably just half his length and then I said no, no, no, and we eased out of each other. I felt horribly guilty. He is so gentle with me. I am starting to realize that I don't find him particularly "hot" or "cute" but he does have a strange and undeniable beauty that comes with being so good to me. It's weird how this happens; how we can have sex for weeks and then one day suddenly we can't. My vagina is temperamental. I want to see a doctor. Maybe they can make an incision in the right place or something. It's always that fucking frenulum.
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061118
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perhaps foreplay would help.
maybe other methods of becoming closer.
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061118
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If the foreplay advice was directed at me...that's the weird thing, there's usually plenty of foreplay (in fact, our sex is predominantly foreplay) and I'm usually nicely self-lubricated and have often already had an orgasm or two. I don't know what to do.
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061118
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^ Have you tried using sex toys, handcuffs, blindfolds, candlewax?
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061118
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I think the hottest sex we've had was actually a very silly roleplay (we can't take it seriously, it was interspersed with goofy jokes and giggling and snorting) in which we pretended we had broken up, found new partners, and were now having secretive post-breakup sex. We haven't really used sextoys, because I don't want to build up a dependency on them. I'd rather use them on him. I wouldn't want a blindfold on me, not because I'm afraid of being surprised or anything, but because we had sex once in a pitch black basement and I didn't like it one bit. I craved some shadow, some moonlight, some dank city glow, anything to break the madcap spirals of blinking lights that spun out of my vision in that impenetrable dark. Handcuffs wouldn't be useful because we don't like power dynamics and he could easily just ask me to not move my hands, or I him. And candlewax is a big no-no because I am terrified of being burned and do not enjoy the sensation in any way, and neither does he. You might say our sex is bland and unexciting, and compared to the movies (or just some people) it probably is. But I've had my body betrayed before and it's a relief to just be silly and affectionate and experiment with different gender roles.
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If roleplaying works best, then you should go with that. I was just merely recommending a few things that have worked for me and my girlfriend in the past. I've used my tie as blindfold, handcuffed my girlfriend to the bed, and carefully dripped some candle wax onto her stomach, right above the belly button. We don't do something like this every day, more like once every two months. And we always try something new to keep it exciting. I usually burn some incense beforehand, and pop a trip-hop CD in the stereo. Some nights we take bubblebath together and sip wine while in the tub. Other times we pretend it's our prom night, dress up and dance to a few songs from the nineties. There's some role play for ya :) Once in a while we (again dress up) and go out to a really expensive restaurant and have dinner. For some reason, spending over $100 in one night on food works like an aphrodisiac for us. I don't know if I'll run out of ideas soon since the relationship is still young (8 months), but if I do, I'm going to have to start studying kama sutra...
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061119
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She's bleeding. She says it's the pill, they're making her bleed between periods. This isn't spotting either.
I think what really got me was when we switched positions, I reached down to guide myself in and felt my hand clot with the blood on my penis.
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061119
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Even on the pill, excessive blood isn't normal...
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