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I think some young folks get into relationships for a similar reason that they can't wait for their breasts to develop or their facial hair to come in: they want to appear "mature."
So they say "BOYFRIEND" or "GIRLFRIEND" for awhile or maybe "MY MAN" or "MY WOMAN" and then...children of the divorce culture that they are..they get to emulate their parents and say "my EX."
Soon everyone wants an Ex. Its not enough to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend anymore. That's baby shit. Get an "EX" or get to the back of the line.
And then they'll say it over and over again in conversation until I just want to projectile vomit from hearing it. "My ex this" and "My ex that" and "Did I tell you about my ex?"
All I hear them spouting in front of an idolizing younger crowd (who notice EVERYTHING we do..even if they can't always put it into context) is:
Broken relationships are normal. Broken relationships are mature. Broken relationships are cool. Broken relationships are popular.
"No they aren't. We hate them!!"
Really, then why so many failed attempt with no apparent change in your attitude toward what a relationship is and what is, and what is required for a successful one? Why so many failed relationships, but no progress?
Because your parents were "big" kids emulating what they saw when they were younger and trying to pretend like they are adults because they've reached some year mark.
Our society stunts the growth of its members by creating this artificially prolonged childhood, this unnatural dependence...this charade of adulthood where little boys grow into musclebound penises with no more self control than a 12 year old and women armed with breasts and vaginas.. prowl for control, security and/or wallets with all of the naive surety of a 14 year old girl playing sexual sorceress. (Gawd how those silly little girls like to play that stupid little game.)
I'm sorry, the fact that you can drink legally, vote and procreate in the pursuit of casual sex makes you dangerous..not mature.
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