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wondering
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what's the difference between a bad person and a good person who does something bad
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the bad actions are still bad, but a good person will accept that they've done wrong and grow positively from it and do their best to heal the issue they caused. A bad person doesn't care about wrong doing and may have even done wrong intentionally. The bad person will not try to mend anything for anyone else and likely be upset when someone, good or bad, does wrong to them. selfish_vs_selfless ? though selflessness is not a requirement.
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i guess technically we're over officially but we're not really over unofficially. whatever that means. distance makes decisions for people.
i miss you. i like how you're honest, and how you tell me we've bonded and that you care about me, even though we haven't known each other that long. i like how you listen to me when i talk about anything bugging me, and you explain and understand. i like how when i can't sleep around you (probably more due to my own anxiety and sleep issues than you), you try to help me by telling me things like "just lie here with me. don't focus on sleep; focus on relaxing here in the dark. even if you get a sleepless night, this won't matter in ten years." (anxious-person pep talks!) i like how you cuddle up to me. i like how you call me a ride when i eventually have to leave in the late night/early morning like a crazy person. i like that you understand my insanity and that you have some of your own. i like how you get things and me.
i like how much you overthought it after making me a mix cd and offered disclaimers about why it might not be as good as it could've been. (it was good.) i like how we joke around and can be silly together. i like how we can not talk together.
i like how attracted you are to me, and how you tell me and show me so, and how good we are together.
i like how you text me. i've been trying to lay back because of the distance, and because i thought you were too, but then you texted me before you went to bed, just to say hi.
sometimes you don't want things to be grey_areas.
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i like your loyalty and confidence and vulnerability
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i like to learn about and listen to your favourite songs
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no such thing
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to n o m or anyone: do you believe there is a such thing as a bad_person?
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no
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epitome of incomprehensibility
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No, nor a good person, but it's a useful shorthand sometimes. I mean, someone doesn't have to be a complete monster in order to treat you badly; on the other hand, they don't have to be perfect to do something good.
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e_o_i contextualizes confusingly
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(Bad/good relationship "material" or friendship "material"; mentor, teacher, go-to guy/gal/alliterative non-gendered thing here...)
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i'm more likely to believe a person is good at their core than the opposite. people do horrible things, but it's not so simple as to just say they're bad people.
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