who_you're_will_reveals
hsg
There
comes
a
point
when
being
nice
to
someone
else
is
no
longer
being
nice
to
someone
else
but
to
yourself
.
At
that
point
you
see
that
you're
inseparable
from
that
person
.
You
will
either
feel
free
in
giving
& receiving (communicating)
or
feel
an
immense
debt
depending
on
where
you
have
left
your
will
.
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'
being
nice'
doesn't
mean
allowing
people
to
walk
all
over
you
and
take
whatever
they
want
without
giving
in
return
.
the
cost_benefit_analysis
is
that
any
one
person
does
not
deserve
an
indefinite
amount
of
the
heart
resources
we
carry
around
. dedicating
too
much
of
the
heart
to
unappreciative
abusive
person
is
abusing
yourself
.
everything
works
both
ways
.
sometimes
the
nicest
thing
you
can
do
is
walk_away
.
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hsg
Letting
someone
walk
all
over
you
is
not
being
nice
.
A
person
giving
all
of
there
heart
is
appropriate
.
You
are
a
person
,
too
.
In
this
case
to
do
that
might
involve
removing
yourself
from
the
situation
,
etc
.
The
subjects
of
the
actions
are
irrelevant
.
Only
the
actions
matter
.
nuance_is_not_precision
Limiting
the
amount
of
something
is_not
accuracy
or
appropriateness.
For
instance,
if
someone
is
going
to
buy
crack
instead
of
food
with
$
50
you
give
them
it
doesn't
mean
that
you
give
them
only
ten
.
If
someone
beats
you
it
doesn't
mean
to
spend
only
half
as
much
time
with
them
.
It
means
A
)
get
yourself
to
a
better
place
first
,
then
B
)
you're
heart
would
tell
you
to
get
them
help
.
See
)
if
that
would
make
you
unsafe
then
you
violated
"
A
"
against
yourself
.
I
do
not
dismiss
the
heart's
accuracy
in
"
B
",
because
whether
or
not
you
are
ABLE
TO
maintain
that
type
of
love
without
giving
into
fear
or
creating
hurt
and
whether
or
not
it
is
the
correct
thing
to
do
are
two
different
things
.
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