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The Dirty Mind
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Girls are fucked.
They covet your attraction, your attention, want you to want to fuck them, and also want you to understand that they don't want to fuck you.
This is very complicated, from both points of view.
The wanting someone to want to fuck me is a strange thing, especially when coupled with the invariable lack of desire towards whatever person. I can dream about grinding on someone's lap and turning them on and never following through. Is that what makes a girls a tease? Probably. Is that what makes me a girl and not a woman?
Probably.
Maybe we just dig attention? Maybe we just thrive on sexual_tension the way someone thrives when they're turned_on and getting into the moment. Not thinking about Where This Is Going but just experiencing the feeling in their pants that someone is Actually Listening to what they have to say and is also somehow thinking about you massaging their tits.
The experience this evening only cemented it, and I hated the boundary created between my wanting to be wanted and wanting to set the firm boundary at tit massage.
How is this to be expressed? Men, feel free to chime in. Now is your chance. Do you know when we want you to want us? Could you stop after bosom worship, or would that be a total disappointment? Or is it easier when we set the boundary early on (aka the "I'm not going to fuck you" speech)? Please advise.
With you as always,
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