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surprise_flirtation
Sintina I like being flirted with,
especially when it's a surprise.
Flirtation is nice,
it's very different from coming-on
to someone.
Come-ons suck.
Surprise flirtation takes time and requires a little more thought than a come on. It makes me feel good when a random guy walks up and compliments me... as I sit at a table reading of all things... just reading.

Looking very nerdy, actually.
Very unkempt.
Not out to impress.

And I get compliments, and the slightest of touches.
Surprise flirtation.
Thank you, mister fellow, whom I turned down for a date tonight, for making me feel special and attractive.
Even if you were just out to eventually get a "hook-up", a one-night-stand, or something gross like that, your initial contact was still much more than someone like me expects of a man.

And thus, you gave me the opprotunity to think you wanted more than sex and you were possibly sincere.

Thank you, mister stranger, for
surprise flirtation. And again, for making me feel special and attractive.
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