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SoulessWanderer
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Ever.
Help.
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cinzento
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Don't have sex. It's the first date.
Act natural. If you don't, the entire relationship starts off on the wrong foot.
You can hold hands if you want.
Try talking. It's good to know what the guy's like, and let him know what you're like.
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Soulesswanderer
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What about kissing?
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dosquatch
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Judgement call. It shouldn't be a goal, it shouldn't be avoided, either. If you like him and feel it, have at it.
What makes a kiss good or bad is a big subject that covers a lot of ground. For a first kiss, just don't slobber. Everything else can be worked on later.
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Eye contact is important
Look into his eyes when he talks, makes him feel like your really listening and interested in him and what he's saying, witch is a nonverbal complement.
Look into his eyes when you talk other wise he'll feel you might as well be talking to that chair over their instead of him, also hides any nervousness your feeling, so he wont be able to tell and shows your confident
But don’t be intrusive or stare too much (remember to blink) other wise it’s creepy.
And blushing is cute. On that note don’t wear too much make up.
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no reason
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just be yourself
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Act natural, just kind of think of it like youre going out with a friend and hanging out.. just its a date. I wouldnt try to change your appearance to much either. Like wear clothes you'll be comfortable in. Its not appealing to have your date tugging at their clothes because the wont sit right. And your make up should be natural looking so you dont look like Barbie. And most of all, Have FUN! Chances are, if youre nervous so is your date so dont worry if you say something stupid or weird. It just gives you two something to laugh about. I guess thats it. Just have fun and remember to keep up posted on how it turns out.
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daxle
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i don't even understand how first dates happen. i just start hanging out with guys and all of a sudden they start wondering where it is going and if they can kiss me.
if you don't already know someone how do you manage a date with them? and if you do know them how do you distinquish between hanging out and a date.
i know how it happens in movies but how does it happen for real people?
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Connecting..the.dots..
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yea, what she said!
I actually thought the vary same thing Dax!
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pete
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We saw the first Harry Potter movie instead of going to English class.
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Souless Wanderer
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dosquatch- I wasn't into it, he was. So, Meh. Wasnt good, but what do i know. The only other guy I've made out with wasnt that good either, so maybe its just me.
Connecting..the.dots.- Ya.. I'm not really into the whole eye contact thing.. Ask anyone. I don't do it. so, I suppose i talked to the chair alot.. When i talked. mostly, he did.
Blushing, not cute. lol. and i always wear two much makeup.
no reason- But who am i?
Orange Passion-It was bad. but thanks for answering... And again, with the makeup. To much, all the time. And I tried to tell him i was nervous, and he just brushed it off. BTW, He was an ass.
daxle- Well to start with... He asked me on a date. As in, "I really wanna hit it wit cho, girl" I couldnt say no. Not becuase he was irresistable, but because i have a problem with saying no to people.
*sighs* Just a bad night it would be better to forget. No more dating for me, unless i actually know the person first, Like what daxle does.
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dax
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between two tries, it's quite possible that they were both bad, especially if they are inexperienced
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minnesota_chris
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and another dysfunctional generation is created
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dosquatch
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If you want to experience a good kiss, the only thing you can do is practice. You can get a balloon and watch the steamy scenes in movies and try to do what you see with the balloon... though that loses its appeal after about the first try. The best thing to do is find someone you're into, and who is into you, and have at it.
Following that, practice with a friend. Someone you like and trust, and who agrees that it is for your mutual benefit. You can be more clinical this way, kiss kiss, lean back and offer an honest appraisal of what you did or didn't like, and get the same feedback. I've known people who have done this, and it seemed to work for them.
Truth be told, to get a good kiss you have to GIVE a good kiss. A great kisser kissing a lousy kisser means neither of them enjoy it.
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minnesota_chris
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hmm, a friend I like, and trust, with whom I don't want a relationship, and isn't jonesing after me. That's a small list. Oh, and not horrible looking. That's just a personal item on the list.
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SoulessWanderer
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how do you politely tell someone you never want to see them again?
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kookaburra
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im sorry, but ive found somebody else.
your services will no longer be needed.
goodbye.
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dosquatch
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* You are the weakestlink, goodbye!
* It's not me, it's you
* I've traded you for a better model
* Congrats, you've been recycled!
* Let me tell you about my catch and release policy.
* Can't we just be strangers?
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Soulesswanderer
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lol... thansk guys, but im two much of a chicken shit to use those... I'll probably just say... I'm not interested in dating right now. Something stupid like that. I dunno. I should just keep my cell off. Serve the ass right for calling at 1 am when i told him over and over that i wake up at 430 every weekday for work. *growls*
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suicidalchinadoll
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ten minutes later, I'm STILL laughing over the "you are the weakestlink, goodbye"..
two posts up.
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Risen
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I've been dating. It's rather fun. One of my friends said I'm playing the field. Which is a very good thing.
Rather lovely girl today (Irish redhead) and then on Tuesday we have a very forward Italian. I am excited. I'm interested. I'm living my life.
Here's to many more
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